Victim Triangle
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Victim Triangle

Recently, I have been asked to provide more talks to mid-level managers of organizations, with the intention for these teams to understand what the leadership team has been working on, become more strategic in their thinking, and learn how to be better managers and departmental leaders. One of the examples I have been using that…

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10 Ways To Better Conflict – It’s Worth It (Part Two)

Last week, I introduced the first five ways to mitigate and minimize the negative effects of conflict. In this week’s blog, I’ll continue by discussing the value of communication, creativity, and staying focused when overcoming conflict. Be direct and speak from your perspective Once you’ve made it this far, the other party will likely suspect…

10 Ways To Better Conflict – It’s Worth It (Part One)
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10 Ways To Better Conflict – It’s Worth It (Part One)

With regards to my EOS practice, I inform potential clients that my role in the process is threefold as a teacher, facilitator, and coach. I believe I’m often initially hired to help teach the process and get teams and companies rolling; however, my clients tend to stick with me because of the facilitation and coaching…

How Teams Set “Rocks” Says A Lot
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How Teams Set “Rocks” Says A Lot

Lately, I’ve observed an extremely clear sign: one that indicates a transitional point for the leadership teams with which I work. The maturity, health, and cohesiveness (or lack thereof) of the whole team can be observed when it creates its new quarterly priorities, or as Dr. Stephen Covey calls them, “Rocks”. During these sessions, we…

How to Squash Conflict Avoidance, Part II
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How to Squash Conflict Avoidance, Part II

“Dialogue is the most effective way of resolving conflict.” – Tenzin Gyatso, The 14th Dalai Lama Last week’s blog introduced the idea of conflict avoidance. This week, we will provide a few simple ideas on how to avoid it. For the record, I no longer participate in the activities I mentioned last week (worry, complain,…

Overcoming Obstacles and Unleashing Unknown Capabilities
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Overcoming Obstacles and Unleashing Unknown Capabilities

I watched her stand on the precipice of the 164-foot waterfall, her brow furrowed in a determined look. Leaning back on the slippery rock, she was now at a 90-degree angle, knees bent in a strong stance with the river’s water rushing around her feet, trusting in her harness. Reka and I were privileged to…

Review, Learn, Adapt…Repeat
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Review, Learn, Adapt…Repeat

“We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails”                                                                     – Bertha Calloway We’ve ventured through the steps of goal-setting, narrowing down our dreams, and the importance of making time for ourselves and our partners. As you go through the weeks within your quarter, you’ll begin to see where you were more aggressive…